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5 Surefire Ways to Boost Your Confidence When Dating

July 5, 2019 at 1.03pm by
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If you had the confidence you needed, you could achieve what you wanted in all areas of your life. When it comes to your job, you get confidence by learning how to perform the required tasks and then proving you can do a great job. You get confidence at school by doing well on homework and exams. Dating is harder because it can be difficult to see what a successful date looks like. One of the best ways to be successful in the dating world is to be confident. Here are some tips you can use to get that confidence boost you need.

Deal with your fear first.

Do you find your heart beating faster and your palms sweating when you think about going on a date? You need to face your fears head on so you can put them behind you and relax. When you are getting ready, don’t sabotage yourself. Give yourself plenty of time to get ready, and even take off work early if you need more time. Make sure you have time after you’re ready to relax a little before you leave.

Choose your clothes well ahead of time.

so you can clean or iron them if you need to. Get plenty of rest the night before and eat healthy food throughout the day. Use meditation, yoga or breathing exercises so you will be in a good place mentally before you set out. When you take care of all the details ahead of time, you will be more relaxed and less afraid.

Looking good will help you feel confident.

Some people have joked that it is better to look good than to feel good, but there is some truth to the idea that looking good makes you feel good. Get a friend to help you choose clothes that suit your coloring and style, and get your friend to help you get ready if possible. You want to look good, but you also want to show off your personality and best qualities. Do you have nice hair? Strong arms? Find something you like about yourself to show off. Wear something nice but be comfortable so you don’t feel self-conscious. Another secret to being confident on a date is smelling good. Use a nice soap and shampoo, and just enough of a fragrance so you won’t be overwhelming.

Be authentic.

You don’t want to act or look different on your date in order to be more attractive. You are a valuable person in your own right and you will get the respect you deserve if you are honest about who you are. If you present a fake personality, you will only attract someone who likes that fake self and not the person who is right for you. The fact is that there are few things in the world as attractive as honesty.

Be confident in yourself.

And try to take that confidence with you in everything you do. A lot of your fear is because you worry about being rejected, which is a normal human emotion. Your date is feeling the exact same thing, and you will feel more confident recognizing that and helping your date overcome that fear. While you are worrying about rejection, you are forgetting the important fact that you have the same power in the relationship. You will only move on with this person and keep dating if both of you decide that this is the right choice. You want to consider that if you decide not to continue the relationship, you should be kind about it.

Focus on your date instead of your fear.

You may or may not want to continue the relationship, but you have a limited amount of time on a date to get to know someone. Use your time wisely, by learning as much as possible. Listen, ask questions, and find areas you have in common. You might even learn some interesting things about yourself. Even if you don’t end up dating on a long term basis, you may find a new friend. There is no reason to look at dating as an all or nothing proposition. Enjoy yourself, relax, and look at your date as an opportunity to grow.

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