Phenomenal advice for single men from a dating agency in Ukraine

If you are a single man looking for love, our dating agency in Ukraine (Simply Dating) has something extraordinary for you today. There is some excellent advice here for you.

• Do you truly know what you want?

Some people think they know what they want, but in fact, they don’t really know what they want. Please let me explain.

Example: Chandler is an employee who wants to have a real job, so he asked his manager to give him more shifts. He told his manager that his parents are not well. So, they rely on his income. However, he is often late for work, demonstrates lazy behavior, and gives the manager fake results.

It seems that Chandler knows what he wants (a real job). In actuality, he doesn’t know what he wants at all because what he really wants is a job that comes with responsibilities (almost every job involves some responsibilities) – he must arrive at work on time, work hard and give the manager real results. Otherwise, he wouldn’t have a real job.

Similarly, if you think you want a relationship, please be aware that a relationship comes with hard work. Truthfully, every relationship needs work because you have to nurture it (otherwise, the relationship will not be sustainable in the long term). I’ve never met a happy couple who don’t need to work on their relationship.

Basically, that means you have to organize date nights with your partner regularly. You need to plan holidays with your partner. You must treat your partner with respect, love, and affection at all times. Even though you are very tired after working for 8 hours in an incredibly boring office.

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Some single men’s checklists are very long. The ideal partner has to look a certain way, be within a certain age group, have a certain job, and come from a good family….

This has nothing to do with having high standards. As a matter of fact, I highly encourage you to have high standards. However, there is a difference between high standards and high expectations.

Having high standards means you know what you deserve. You don’t want anyone crossing your boundaries. In contrast, having high expectations means you can’t see that life is a process of solving one problem after another. You can’t expect everything to be great in reality. That also means having high expectations is oftentimes the recipe for disappointment.

Many years ago, I was a retail worker in a department store. At that time, I was working in Womenswear as a new employee. Although I did a good job, the senior manager was unhappy with the fact that I wasn’t experienced enough in the retail industry. As a result, the senior manager hired a Womenswear manager.

The new Womenswear manager Patricia was a very ambitious woman because she accepted the job offer for the job title. She was looking forward to becoming the senior manager in a few years. Nevertheless, she was unable to handle the relationship between the senior manager and herself. What’s more, she couldn’t stand the Menswear manager who was supposed to be in an equal position. It turned out that the Menswear manager was the actual concession manager in that department store according to the senior manager. As Patricia was pursuing power, she quit her job within 3 weeks.

If Patricia were more patient and better with the Menswear manager as well as the senior manager, she could easily get a senior position quickly in that industry. The senior manager retired one year later and the Menswear manager was obviously not smart enough anyway.

Likewise, if you are looking for a partner, you should look at what you are and are not okay with. Take Luke as an example. Luke’s non-negotiables include: 1) This woman has to be well-educated; 2) This woman must be kind; 3) This woman should be under 40 years old (because Luke wants children).

These are negotiable for Luke: 1) This woman should be slim; 2) This woman should have long hair; 3) This woman should have a good job. Apparently, Luke is a practical guy who knows what’s more important and what’s less important to him.

“Simply Dating, a dating agency in Ukraine, claims that single men need to know the difference between standards and expectations.”

You can learn more about the world of international dating with the help of Simply Dating, a dating agency in Ukraine. You can also take a look at our blogs on dating advice and Slavic women so you can be better prepared when you register to date. Head on over to Simply Dating to begin your search for your soulmate!