A Single Life Versus A Married Life With An Eastern European Lady

When you are still looking for a partner, are you happy with your single life? Shani Silver (a podcaster) says the single lifestyle is underrated because society only values the partnered lifestyle. In actuality, the single lifestyle can be as great as the partnered lifestyle. Let’s take a look at the advantages of a single life versus those of a married life when you are married to an Eastern European woman.

A single lifestyle: When your family and friends are concerned

Mainstream culture values a partnered lifestyle rather than a single lifestyle. So, whenever you catch up with your family and friends for Christmas (or Thanksgiving), they oftentimes ask you, “So, how’s your dating life?” if you are single.

I know sometimes this question is so annoying because it’s really none of their business. However, their rationale is “I just want you to be happy”.

Now, this is what you will say whenever they ask you that question: “How is your married life?”. Well, this is the same question. Yes, “How is your dating life?” is the same as “How is your married life?”. This is because both questions are asking about a person’s relationship status or the quality of their current personal life.

Many people would argue that we cannot ask, “How is your married life?” because we shouldn’t ask what’s happening behind closed doors. Yet why can we ask questions about a single person’s love life?

Therefore, if someone asks you, “Why are you single?”, you can ask them, “Why are you married?”. Technically, that’s the same question as well.

Being single isn’t better or worse than being married. It’s just a stage of life.

If you are on our website, you will find the right lady because we have so many Eastern European women who are interested in meeting men like you.

How alike do you and your Eastern European wife need to be to have a great marriage?

Some candidates on this website wonder whether they’re suited to each other. How similar do you and your Eastern European lady need to be to have a wonderful marriage?

In my view, it depends on which aspect of the relationship you are talking about. Here is my understanding:

1. You need the same value systems.
2. You need shared interests (not necessarily the same interests).
3. You and your Eastern European wife can have different personalities. 

Realistically, it’s pretty good to have very different personalities because you will appreciate different ways of viewing this world as well as different ways of being in this world. Different ways of feeling, thinking, and expressing can enrich your life as a couple.

Of course, you must understand and appreciate the differences instead of making each other wrong because of them. What’s more, the same traits could have positive and negative aspects. For instance, a dependable person might seem a bit dull because they don’t take risks and aren’t spontaneous. By contrast, someone who is adventurous and exciting can also be overwhelming at times.

When you accept each other’s personalities, you will be able to enjoy its benefits. This is because the exciting person brings ideas and energy to the marriage. At the same time, the dependable person brings a sense of safety to the marriage.

Therefore, you can have totally different personalities and still enjoy an amazing marriage. Nevertheless, when it comes to interests, you need an overlap. You must have shared activities, e.g., travelling, dancing, gardening, and so on. When you have topics of common interest, you can have deep and meaningful conversations with your Eastern European wife. You may talk about history, literature, music, etc. Having said that, it’s good to have some different interests as well. If there is an activity that gives you some time apart, this activity invigorates you, so when you come back to your Eastern European wife, you feel energised. For instance, you attend a foreign language class and come back with a smile, and now you are ready to engage with your Eastern European wife.

“You and your Eastern European wife are supposed to have the same values because when your value systems are aligned, the marriage is sustainable and rewarding.”

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