Attracting Eastern European women on a dating site

So, you’ve started talking to an Eastern European lady online, and you want to know how to build her attraction for you. You should totally take some notes right now.

• Break rapport.

Usually, when you want somebody to like you, you possibly want to agree with them so that you won’t cause any discomfort. This is okay to some degree if you only want to find a new friend. However, this will not lead to uncontrollable attraction between a man and a woman.

Breaking rapport means you should feel free to disagree with a woman. No, it’s not about disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing. I mean you should show her that you have your own opinions and not everything she says will be right in your opinion.

Having said that, you shouldn’t be argumentative. Don’t go too far and become confrontational. What you need to do is to talk about your honest opinions in a relaxed manner. Let me give you an example:

HER: “I listened to Dita Von Teese’s album. I love her songs.”

YOU: “Oh, really? I’m not a fan of Dita Von Teese’s songs. I prefer songs who are sung by actual singers. I really like singers who can actually sing well. I look forward to Mariah Carey’s concert next year.”

Now you may wonder: Why would breaking rapport build attraction instantly? Shouldn’t we look for what we have in common?

The truth is it’s good to have things in common when they are actually things you have in common with someone, not because you agree with everything she says. Eastern European women are attracted to men who are honest, so if you have an honest disagreement with them, it tells them that you have standards and you won’t submit to whatever she says she likes.

In addition, when you actually find something in common with someone, it will make the emotional connection stronger as it will come from an authentic place. Eastern European women secretly want a guy who challenges them to some extent, a man who brings new value to the table or provides a different viewpoint to look at this world. Disagreement is simply disagreement; it’s not an argument or a conflict.

• Understand the importance of playfulness and humor in dating and relationships.

Men who have the most power and attractiveness are not those who look like James Bond. This may surprise you, but it’s a fact: Men who lack warmth are not popular in reality, although they might look great in movies.

Men with the real power and strength can put everybody around them at ease. They are leaders in the dynamics; they make women laugh for the right reasons. If you need some help, you can watch a comedy show every week and learn some techniques regarding playfulness and humor. Of course, you won’t become a clown, but you do need to add humor and playfulness to your interactions with Eastern European women online.

Furthermore, when you are talking to a lady from Eastern Europe online, you should connect with her instead of interviewing her. You are looking for an emotional connection rather than a resume. Therefore, the first conversation with an Eastern European lady shouldn’t be factual exchange for a job interview.

Resume facts won’t help you determine if she is the right woman or not. Yes, I acknowledge the fact that knowing she is a caring teacher of a primary school can be useful (and that could be true). Yet chances are you can find out this information on her dating profile anyway.

In other words, boring and dull factual exchanges shouldn’t happen in the first conversation with an Eastern European woman online. Questions such as “What do you do?” and “Which city are you from?” give no opportunity for building attraction. These are unmotivating topics and won’t take you anywhere.

Apart from that, please don’t brag about things yourself, as this can also come across as having insecurities. You may have a hugely successful business or have a PhD; nevertheless, this isn’t the right words to say at the very beginning. Only people who lack internal value must use their material worth and / or financial status to compensate for a lack of character. As a matter of fact, relying on external indicators of value shows a man’s weakness. An intelligent woman will figure out this validation-seeking behavior quickly – this behavior is about taking rather than giving.

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