How to attract a Ukrainian lady and make her want to marry you

Before attracting a Ukrainian woman, you need to know what standards you have, and then you must find out if the lady you are dating meets your standards or not. You should figure out whether things line up for you and this lady / whether you and this woman are compatible. You are not here to impress her at all costs.

• Are you compatible with her?

Let’s say you like going to concerts – you probably would appreciate a lady who enjoys going to concerts with you, right? So, you may say, “A quick question for you – I just need to check out what your feelings are around going to a concert every weekend?”

When you ask a question like this, you are demonstrating that you come from a perspective of “I have an interesting life. I’m very happy with what I do. I’m now interviewing you to find out how much you will fit in with my life.”

Please don’t think about how to impress a woman all the time. You would be well-advised to think about how you can ask good questions regarding the traits that are important to you. Perhaps you might ask her, “All right. An important question and please be honest with me. What is your worst trait?”

Maybe you can say, “By the way, music is important to me. I always have some background music at home. Are you the type of woman who likes sitting on the sofa quietly? Or do you prefer listening to some background music at home?”

Through coming from the perspective of “whether you fit in with me and my life”, you will have a clear direction for the interaction. Also, the lady will feel reasonably challenged by the interaction in a good way because you are not falling over yourself in order to be with her. Then when she becomes your girlfriend, she will know it’s actually because you have created a real connection with her in the first place. ?

• Listen to your lady.

When you are talking with a Ukrainian woman, please do not race through the conversation. Many men simply go through the motions instead of engaging with women. Whenever you feel like you have run out of things to say, usually it’s because you are racing through the conversation – you try to think of questions to ask, but you don’t hear her asking you questions. Consequently, when the woman answers your question, you immediately think about what to ask her next.

From now on, you will need to remember two things in conversations:

1. Be an interesting man by sharing information about yourself. You can achieve this effect through talking about things that you are truly passionate about in your life, no matter it’s art or computer games. Since you come from the space of high self-esteem, you will demonstrate how happy and proud you are.

1. You must listen to your lady actively. Please note that men and women communicate on various levels. This is beyond the words someone says; this is also how someone say their words that literally indicates who they are. 

• Eliminate your insecurity.

Don’t over give on your dates. If you keep buying drinks in order to make the date last a bit longer, chances are you have a “like me, like me” insecurity. Most men who ask women to check out their best friend’s boat / their online businesses / their perfect photos on social media are over-giving because they don’t trust in themselves.

My advice is not to overly impress a Ukrainian lady with things like very fancy dates or offers of impressive things you can do together. This should never come from a place where everything is offered unconditionally. It has to come from a place where you have already created a genuine connection; hence, you are keen to share your life with her now.

“If you feel bored, tired and upset at the end of a date, chances are you were oversharing or over-giving on the date. A good date should energize you!”