How to find a high-quality international relationship

August 1, 2022 at 7.05am by in International Dating
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Love doesn’t have to be hard or complicated. This blog post is going to make interational dating and relationships easy for you. More importantly, I’m going to show you exactly how to have a romantic relationship on your terms so that you will be the winner in love! ❤️

Have some standards!

Do you know what you want? Do you really, truly know what you want in dating and relationships?

Many people think they know what they are looking for, but their standards are very vague. Now I’d like you to write down two lists:

  1. My non-negotiables
  2. My other standards

On the first list, please only include 2 items because if your non-negotiables are too long, it will become a wish list written by a naïve teenager.

What are your non-negotiables? Be completely honest with yourself!

My friend Martyn’s non-negotiables are: 1) this woman has to be under 40 years old; 2) this woman has to be well-educated. The reason Martyn wants to marry a younger woman is because he wants children. His non-negotiables are his, so nobody can judge him. (Obviously, only he can see his list!)

Note that you can have whatever non-negotiables as long as your list makes complete sense to you because only you know what’s important to you and only you will see your list anyway! 😂

When it comes to your second list (My other standards), you may include other standards that you desire; however, these standards are negotiable. For example, Anna’s other standards are: A) this guy should be tall; B) this guy should be artistic; C) this guy should come from a good family. Yet Anna sticks to her non-negotiables only and simply uses her second list for inspiration.

Again, you stick to your non-negotiables at all times; you have other standards to give yourself inspiration – this is a healthy approach to dating. 💖

Enjoy international dating while looking for the right person.

There are two reasons why you should do this:

  1. You are the most important person in the universe, so your goal is paramount. That means before achieving your goal, you shouldn’t settle for less. Truthfully, when you settle for less, you will only get less than what you settle for!
  1. If you this person isn’t giving you what you want, you are wasting your precious time by stopping yourself from achieving your goal; meanwhile, this person is assuming you can’t find anyone else, so this person is less likely to give you what you want.

Marilyn’s goal is to be married. When she is dating Paul, she can see that Paul is her dream guy; nevertheless, Paul doesn’t seem to have any plans to marry Marilyn soon. As a result, Marilyn casually mentions this to Paul, “Six years ago, I was dating Anthony who proposed to me, but at that time, I didn’t want to be married, so we broke up.”

Paul hears that and doesn’t say much, but now Paul knows Marilyn had an ex-boyfriend called Anthony.

A few months later, Marilyn says to Paul, “Yesterday Anthony called me and was asking me if I am ready to get married now.”

Who is Anthony?” Paul asks her.

The guy that I was seeing six years ago. He proposed to me at that time, but I wasn’t ready to get married six years ago.” Marilyn explains in a relaxed manner.

What do you think of getting married now?” Paul asks again.

I think now I’m ready to get married.” Marilyn replies.

Then Marilyn and Paul take out the calendar and book their wedding. Marilyn has achieved her goal! 😊

“As I’m typing this blog post right now, Paul and Marilyn are very happily married & they are expecting their first baby.”

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