Online dating insights: It’s never too late to start over

Many men are divorced and now they are looking to get married again, so they’ve joined the online dating scene. A lot of them are in their late 40s and 50s. Also, a large number of men quit their jobs and start totally new careers at a mature age. That means it’s never too late! You can always start over. ?

• A new beginning is the therapeutic surrender.

Well, you only have one life because you’re here once only. Your time is your most valuable asset in life. Therefore, you have to take action as soon as possible.

As I see it, starting over as a mature guy is actually an advantage because you are much more sophisticated and experienced than younger men – that’s the unfair advantage that younger guys do not have.

According to an online dating consultant, if you are divorced or you’ve quit your job, it only means that destiny has a much better plan for you in the future. The best is yet to come! In my opinion, staying in an unhappy marriage or a job that you dislike will literally make your life significantly more difficult. So, quitting and starting over is a smart move! ?

Indeed, when you completely surrender to destiny, your life instantly becomes so much easier. Now you can choose to live a life true to yourself and do something closely aligned with your core values. Isn’t that exciting?

• How to actually align with your purpose in life:

When everything you do are aligned with your true purpose in life, you will be happier and more satisfied on a daily basis. ?

Firstly, you should get rid of noises in your head if you are looking to align with your purpose. In my view, anxieties are simply some noises in your head, and not every thought is worth your time and energy. Unhelpful and intrusive thoughts are basically some noises which you are supposed to get rid of. The easiest way to handle these noises is to simply ignore them entirely.

Secondly, you would be well-advised to remove distractions in life. I remember Gary Vaynerchuk famously said, “I am the least anxious individual that I know. In truth, most things in life do not even matter.” That is absolutely profound.

As a successful entrepreneur who only focuses on the big picture in life and at work, Gary Vaynerchuk does not pay a lot of attention to small details that do not make a difference as usually these details are simply distractions only.

Ukrainian women like men who know what they want. So, you should probably write down your purpose in life and put it on the wall so you can see it each day. In effect, if you can’t even see your purpose each day, you can’t remember it clearly.

Apart from that, you need to make sure your daily rituals and routines can support your purpose. Let’s say your purpose is to find true love and build a successful career. Then your daily routine could be sending messages to qualified women on an online dating site, listening to a podcast about career advice, and so on.

• Be a successful guy that Ukrainian ladies admire.

If you are keen to start your own business and become wildly successful, please keep reading!

First of all, you don’t need to get ready before you get started officially. Marie Forleo argues that you should totally start before you’re ready. Here is why:

When you think you’re not quite ready, it’s often because you have fear of success or fear of failure. You know what fear of failure means, but do you know what fear of success is?

Basically, fear of success is just fear of responsibilities. And the process of getting ready is best characterized by avoidance activities. Sad but true.

Second, you don’t need to have the perfect idea before starting a business. In truth, you will never have the perfect idea as no one has a perfect idea. Actually, a perfect idea today will not be a perfect idea tomorrow.

So, what you need to do is to have a reasonably good idea as well as the courage to make it happen. After that, all you need to do is to fine-tune your idea and be well-calibrated.

Third, you don’t need to hire a business coach before you start a business. Yes, it’s okay to hire a business coach before starting your own business as you won’t have to learn things through trial and error. Having said that, it’s fine if you want to wing it, particularly when you are so passionate about your business. You will surely have time to figure it out when your business is a true passion.

 “Ukrainian women like ambitious and motivated guys.”