Slavic dating insights: How to be a winner

Slavic ladies like winners. Further examination shows that winners don’t care about what people think of them!

• The ultimate truth:

Are you worried about what other people think of you? In truth, we all want other people to like us, which is human nature. Yet if you’d like to achieve big success, you must operate differently – it’s time to stop caring about what others think of you so you will be able to fulfil your true potential!

Interestingly and surprisingly, most people aren’t even thinking about you. Let’s be honest here: Who has the time and energy to think of you? Perhaps your family and some of your close friends? In effect, most individuals aren’t thinking of you as they are thinking about themselves.

In my view, fear of criticism and judgment comes from the mindset of playing not to lose. That is not a liberating mindset at all.

I think winners play to win rather than play not to lose as you’re probably more likely to encounter what you want to avoid. Let me explain.

When you think about ‘not to lose’ all the time, the keyword in your brain is ‘lose’. Okay, here is another example: Now I ask you not to think about a pink elephant. What can you see in the back of your head? A pink elephant, right?

• Winners grow their passion.

Slavic ladies like winners who have the courage to grow their passion. Even if you have a full-time job and you are growing your passion on the side, you can make it happen as long as it’s a true passion. ?

Frankly, if you don’t have enough time for your passion, that only tells me it’s not your real passion. If Bill Clinton had enough time for a very romantic encounter in the 90s, then you probably shouldn’t have an excuse for not having enough time to grow your passion – you are NOT busier than the president of the USA. Period.

I know time management is wildly important, but I would argue that energy management is even more important as you can track your energy and use that to your advantage. ?

In my opinion, you need to find out when is the ideal time for you to be productive at work and when is the right time to rest. In this way, you can manage your energy effectively and move the needle forward without suffering from a major burnout.

Of course, you can multitask when it’s possible. For example, when you are working out in the gym, you should totally listen to a podcast about business advice. When you are commuting, you may listen to an audiobook about the side hustle you are growing.

Also, please audit every hour of the day. Are you aware of how much time you waste on a daily basis? I’d like you to audit every hour and you’ll instantly find much more time to grow your passion!

• How to beat fear and be a real winner that Slavic ladies admire:

David Burns states that anxiety is a symptom of ‘the nice guy syndrome’. Further analysis shows that the real reason for every type of anxiety is just fear. How can we beat fear effectively?

First, please understand that love and fear can’t co-exist. When you have fear, it means you are possibly focusing on things that you do not want instead of things that you actually love.

Now I encourage you to think about things that you genuinely love. As you focus on things that you genuinely love, fear won’t dominate your mind.

Next, please figure out what you’re grateful for. Never take things in your life for granted. I am sure you are able to identify things that you are very grateful for now. As you completely feel the tremendous gratitude, fear won’t occupy a huge part of your mind.

Besides, you would be well-advised to appreciate everything, everyone. In truth, appreciation is even more powerful than gratitude, for appreciation means you do not have to receive benefits from others in order to be actually happy – you can still be appreciative even if others haven’t done anything good for you. Could you appreciate their attitude, personality or fashion?

Last but not least, you should listen to your inner leader’s voice. When you suffer from fear, usually it’s because your inner worrier is dominating your thoughts. That’s exactly why you must awaken your inner leader’s voice and then you can find the courage.

Here is an example:

Inner worrier: “Women will reject me because I’m too old/fat/short…”

Inner leader: “The right Slavic woman will like me because I’m a good catch, even though I am not perfect. Do not let the perfect be the enemy of the good!”

“Slavic ladies love winners.”