Masculine Confidence When Chatting With Ukrainian Women

If you’ve been reading our recent blog posts, you probably know that I believe in some unconventional wisdom. I believe that online dating doesn’t require you to listen to motivational speakers or read motivational books to stay fully motivated. All you need to do is maintain your own consistency! Just give yourself a few rules. For example, spend a certain amount of time chatting with Ukrainian women online every day. Work on your grooming every morning. See where these simple changes take you!

The most frequently asked question about personal development and dating is how to be confident instead of motivated. In reality, learning how to be truly confident gives a lot of people a big challenge. How can you be confident when you have almost nothing to feel very confident about in life?

Let’s explore some examples:

1) How can you be really confident at social events when no one has ever liked you before?

2) How can you be absolutely confident in a relationship if every romantic relationship that you had was toxic?

3) How can you be deeply confident at a marketing job if you have never done marketing before?

4) How can you be 100% confident in wealth creation when you never had any money before?

The uncomfortable truth about confidence:

In the real world, confidence is an area where confident men become more confident, whilst insecure guys become more concerned. Truthfully, if you never had a successful romantic relationship before, you can’t have any reference point. You don’t even know what a successful romantic relationship feels like or looks like in the first place. You don’t have solid confidence in a new relationship. This lack of confidence makes your new girlfriend think that you are weird or clingy. This in turn causes another bad breakup.

Theoretically, to be wildly successful, you must be confident first. But realistically, to be confident, you need to be successful. Consequently, you might get stuck in this loop: no success – no confidence – no success. What a Catch-22 scenario!

That being said, this is also just a perception and is not the truth. For example, just because somebody has a large amount of money, it doesn’t mean this person is always confident. An individual’s confidence is rooted in their perception of themselves. This has absolutely nothing to do with tangible external things.

Basically, confidence is just a state of mind, a perception that you lack nothing at all.

How to have masculine confidence while chatting with Ukraine women:

Some gurus might say, “Simply tell yourself that you lack absolutely nothing. Say affirmations to yourself every day. You’ll be very confident as a result.”

In theory, this approach could work to some extent. In practice, however, there is a big difference between hearing your affirmations and believing your affirmations. Remember: affirmations don’t work if you don’t really believe them.

Self-help gurus say things along the lines of, “If you work on improving yourself each day, you will find confidence eventually.” Yes, it’s true that there are numerous articles about the Top 30 Things Confident Men D. You can certainly read these articles to take action based on them. You could dress better, hire a personal trainer, and take care of your professional development. Admittedly, those tactics will work!

However, this method is another approach that focuses on deriving confidence from external sources. Experts say that these may not work in the long run on their own, because external factors could be taken away. What if you don’t have a fit body to impress your social media followers or stylish clothes to wear? Can you still be confident?

The secret…

In my opinion, the right way to become confident is to be completely comfortable with what you do not have.

It’s very easy to be comfortable with what you have. Nonetheless, can you be comfortable in what you don’t even have as well? A study shows that if you’re very comfortable with what you don’t have, it’s easier for you to become confident. No success – comfort in failure – confidence – success.

Men who are confident in their social lives are so confident just because they are comfortable with rejections. They do not fear rejection because they are confident with women disliking them as long as they can express themselves authentically.

Men who are confident in their love lives are often confident simply because they are comfortable and open to the possibilities in love. They are open to falling in love, getting hurt, and learning from it all. They can be vulnerable and tell their ladies how they actually feel. That’s how they build very strong connections with women. These men try their best to build loyal, safe spaces for those around them, stick to their standards at all times and have crystal clear boundaries, even if it means they must end a toxic relationship.

In contrast, when it comes to dating, men without confidence ask “Will I be hurt?” first before deciding anything. Sadly, this usually leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. This is why you must try to relax and accept who you are, what you have and what you don’t have. Allow good things to happen in your life.

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