The Right Mindset For Men Who Are Dating a Ukrainian Lady

When you begin looking for the partner of a lifetime, the right place to turn to is towards seeking your soulmate in a Ukrainian lady.

Healing from the past

Let me start today’s article with a true story: Ben left his ex-wife approximately eight years ago. Because of the stressful marriage and the divorce, Ben had anxiety and suffered from PTSD, too. Through talking to psychologists and counsellors and reading self-help books, Ben has overcome the mental health problem. However, he still needs to do some maintenance work by listening to podcasts.

He hasn’t seen his ex-wife for almost 8 years. Yesterday, as he was walking in the street, he accidentally saw his ex-wife. She was chatting with her friends while walking in the same street. Interestingly, however, she didn’t see him. Strangely, he felt incredibly calm. “If I saw her in 2015, I would have lost my mind,” says Ben. “Thankfully, I saw her yesterday, and now I have the right mindset. I have recovered from that experience, and now I’m ready to meet a Ukrainian lady who has traditional values.” The right mindset is the foundation of doing everything in life. This principle applies to all situations. It’s not just about dating and relationships.

The power of the right mindset:

Because of COVID-19, a large number of people have some kind of anxiety. Mental health issues are commonplace nowadays. We should get rid of the stigma about mental health problems. 

What’s more, research shows that many people are traumatized because of negative experiences in life. Trauma is actually quite common. As a consequence, a lot of people have depression and PTSD. Nonetheless, luckily, these days a large amount of information and resources are available in modern-day society, so people have access to the support they need.

In my opinion, everyone should work on their mindset. This is not just for those who are challenged by mental health crises. Physically healthy people still need to pay attention to their physical health. Similarly, mentally healthy people would be well-advised to keep working on their mental health as well. In other words, fit people still should go to the gym in order to remain fit; mentally healthy individuals still should maintain their mental health regularly.

How relaxed are you?

There is a major belief that anxiety is caused by too much masculine energy, whereas depression is caused by too much feminine energy. That explains why so many men are anxious when they are on a date. 

The best suggestion for not over-giving on a date and having higher standards is to know that it is perfectly fine for you to walk away first. It’s perfectly fine for you to finish the date earlier. It’s perfectly fine for you to end an interaction simply because the connection isn’t there. Indeed, if you invest a lot in the interaction but she isn’t investing in you, you probably should let the interaction go because it’s not going to be rewarding anyway.

Please always remember that not every date needs to have an outcome. Just because she is an attractive lady, it doesn’t necessarily mean you must keep her. I’m sure you have higher standards for yourself and the ideal partner that you would marry.

I want you to put yourself out there bravely and then invest in a Ukrainian lady that you truly admire and totally respect. She must have the qualities that you look for in the first place.

It’s always easier to meet new candidates who are aligned with you than try to change someone’s mind – if she is not investing in the interaction, she isn’t the right person. Period.

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